Holiday requests expected to rise

As budgets thin, more families in need

Rising utility bills and other expenses have forced some residents beyond their budgets as Christmas approaches.

AFL-CIO Community Services recently launched its annual Adopt-A-Family Christmas program, which assists needy families and individuals in the St. Joseph area. Assistant Director Penny Adams said 238 families had applied for the aid through Wednesday. This first rush means the agency will take only the first 50 persons who apply daily, Ms. Adams said.

Stories vary as to need, but many people have told intake staff that they aren't able to put aside adequate savings for the holidays. Some families say they are living paycheck-to-paycheck, she added.

"A lot of them are saying they're working, but because of utilities or unexpected (payments), they're not able to get by," she said. "A lot of them you could tell by their bills."

Those applicants who specifically mention utility expenses are told about Community Action Partnership, which offers help in paying heat and light bills, and assistance from Kansas City Power & Light. Many of the applicants are beset by past-due penalties that add to the existing bill, or are saddled by payday and car title loans, Ms. Adams said.

"It's robbing from the rent money," she said of some situations.

Another segment of the Adopt-A-Family applications are people who have lost jobs, but are without enough unemployment compensation to cover their holidays.

The agency is now starting to see more families come through its doors, Ms. Adams said, after seeing early applications from individuals and senior citizens.

Jana Castanon, a community outreach director for the Consumer Credit Counseling Service, offered advice to families in making holiday budgets:

Talk with family members to determine if names can be exchanged among the adults and whether a dollar figure can be placed on the amount to be spent on gifts.

Know which merchants have sales before setting out on shopping trips. Never go shopping without a plan, to avoid impulse purchases.

Make a list of everything purchased and how much it costs, so they're not forgotten.

Use cash to stay within your budget.

Ray Scherer can be reached

at rscherer@npgco.com.

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attaboy says...

get a second job even fst food pays seven-fifty an hour some have needs some are lazy.

November 22, 2009 at 10:09 a.m. ( | suggest removal )

justjohnson says...

You do not need to spend money on gifts to enjoy the holidays. Getting together with family and friends should be enough. Too many people believe that it is all about presents. If you have to ask strangers to give you gifts for the holidays your priorities are not what they should be. Be thankful for what you do have and celebrate living. Stop stressing if you will be able to buy and receive gifts.

November 23, 2009 at 10:25 a.m. ( | suggest removal )

LibertyOrDeath says...

"Car title loans or payday check cashing."

So your best answer is to make them easy in their ignorance or carelessnes by "bailing them out?"

Buy them crap this year and I bet you a MONTHS worth of my wages they will have title loans and payday loans come next Christmas. I'm sure they'll have a damn good excuse then, too.

"Unexpected costs?" What the hell is that? Who isn't fully aware that life throws curveballs? That's why you live WITHIN your means, that's why you save your OWN money (after making it of course). Because you are responsible for YOU.

I say if you're going to apply for assistance then you need to open your home doors and let the community come and ask questions.

"Why is there a Wii under your TV?" "Why is your kids wearing $125 sneakers?" "Why do you have a years worth of frozen pizzas in the freezer and not a trace of even ground beef?" "Why are there ashtrays in every room in the house?" Why are there empty liquor bottles in your trash can?"

Yeah, I bet ya that "238" number would magically shrink overnight if we did this.

November 23, 2009 at 12:15 p.m. ( | suggest removal )

gocubbies says...

Liberty, I agree with you. The Adopt-A-Family program is a joke. I understand that there are families that run into tough times. We all do. What I don't like about the program is that they accept everyone that has a boo hoo story with limited proof to need. Most of the people that do this are pros that have lived off the system most of their lives with food stamps and welfare.

My family has run into tough times right now with my wife being out of work since June of 08. We've adjusted our lifestyle and have not been late on one single bill. On top of that we've added a bill due to my wife going back to college to obtain another degree.

My employer and I refuse to participate in the Adopt-A-Family program due to the abuse of the system. For example, the last time we participated in this program, we adopted 7 families 3 years ago. Of the 7, 6 were defiantly abusing the system. The one that stands out in my mind was a single mother and her 2 sons (one that was 15, the other 12) wrote that she could not find a job, she was behind on all of her bills, and her kids had not had any new cloths in over a year. When we showed up to her apartment we soon realized that it was a scam that she does often. We walk into the house with her two kids wearing $100+ sneakers, Polo jeans & shirts, playing their Xbox on a 51 inch big screen and a new WII sitting next to the Xbox with dozens of games stacked up in a DVD rack. There were tons of presents already under a tree. We never received a thank you from the family. They only request the mom made was if we had the receipt for the presents that we brought. This family lived in an Apartment complex that is Housing based and she received welfare and more than likely child support.

Charity begins at home. If you have the extra to give this holiday, I say fined a friend or relative that is in need and help provide for them.

November 23, 2009 at 12:53 p.m. ( | suggest removal )