Halloween is about suspending reality and venturing into the world of make-believe. It’s there that children and adults test the limits of good and bad choices.
For most, the holiday is a chance to dress and act like someone or something they are not. Everyone plays along and comforting reality returns in the morning.
For a few, the cover of the night encourages risk-taking that leads to trouble. A child can become caught up in peer pressure and do something regrettable, or worse. An adult can allow their partying mood to spawn reckless and dangerous behaviors.
The first defense is for parents and other adults to be purposeful in planning how the evening will unfold. As the St. Joseph Police Department advises:
n A responsible adult should accompany young children. Know where older kids are trick-or-treating. Require all children to travel in groups and carry flashlights.
n Get the specifics about parties or school functions your children may be attending. Set and enforce a time they are to be home.
n Explain how tricks and vandalism differ. Explain the consequences of destructive behaviors, such as throwing eggs at homes or cars.
n Make sure everyone understands that cruelty to an animal is both wrong and punishable by law.
Some cautions are so obvious as to not need explanation: Adults who intend to drink as part of their evening activities have no business driving or being around children.
According to federal data, nearly 60 percent of highway fatalities last Halloween involved someone who was legally drunk. And this year, the holiday falls on a Saturday. Law enforcement officers warn that they are taking an aggressive stance against drunk drivers and will be prepared to arrest and remove them from the roadways.
As for the dangers of sugary treats? There must be some, but they pale in comparison. Practical parents will encourage moderation but keep their attention focused on bigger threats to the safety and well-being of their children.